Playing and exploring is one of the essential Characteristics of Effective Learning. However it is now common to see concerns on social media about children appearing to struggle with playing and exploration. When children rely on adult-led or highly structured activities, they may struggle to engage with independent play. When left to their own devices in a room full of toys they will wander aimlessly about seemingly not knowing what to do with themselves. This not only burdens the childminder with the constant need to provide stimulation, but also hinders the child’s development. So, what can be done to address this issue?
- Check that the resources are suitable for the child. When considering resources for a child’s development, it is important to ensure that they align with the child’s stage of development. You may need to rotate or change toys to provide a greater level of challenge and stimulate the child’s interest.
2. Try to identify the child’s deep-seated interests, which may go beyond surface-level preferences such as cars or dinosaurs. Understanding what the child is truly learning about, such as following a schema, can help in selecting appropriate resources. For example, a child with a connecting schema may need to be able access resources such as jigsaw puzzles, Duplo or Lego bricks or train tracks that slot together.
3. It is also important to understand how the child is currently learning. You may have set out a fantastic small world play set up but if a child is actually currently learning through large role play you may need to get out resources like a toy shop or kitchen so they can insert themselves into their play scenario instead of acting out their ideas through a character. (I always like to think of these two things as big and small pretend play.)
4. If you have thought about all of the above and the child is still wandering around aimlessly then do not be afraid to resort to a bit of good old fashioned boredom! Often children need to break the habit of constantly seeking external stimulation. Remove as many resources as possible so that the child focuses on generating ideas for playing with just one thing instead of hopping from one thing to another. However make sure the resources you leave available are open ended to encourage the child to use their imagination. You may need to do a bit of modelling a first but then take a step back and be busy with something else so that you are not available. This is a good time to sit and do some ‘very important’ paperwork that cannot be interrupted. (Even if the paperwork is just a crossword puzzle that you are doing while keeping an eye on things!)
5. Take the children to explore a natural outside environment. If possible take the children somewhere where they can interact with natural spaces and materials rather than somewhere like a playpark with lots of equipment. (Which is essentially providing another adult led activity.) Choose somewhere you can sit and watch the children play without providing lots of resources. A bucket and spade if you are at the beach or containers to fill if you visit a wooded area are ample. The lack of artificial distractions may help a child overcome their boredom and they soon may be happily building sandcastles and forts or collecting different sticks and fir-cones.
6. If a child genuinely does not know how to play or entertain themselves then you will not necessarily see instant results. However it is really worth sticking with it and resisting the temptation to fill every moment with exciting adult led activities. Ultimately you nurturing essential qualities such as resilience and creativity, independent thinking and exploration.
Written 11/03/2024
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